tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8202344894613963804.post5881267944887756057..comments2023-05-29T08:53:26.651-07:00Comments on The Frisky Virgin: Stereotype Slayer #4: Virgins Are Scared Of SexThe Frisky Virginhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03782384806427143829noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8202344894613963804.post-91415216448050085352011-06-21T07:29:49.057-07:002011-06-21T07:29:49.057-07:00Definitely slayed. Once real feelings are involved...Definitely slayed. Once real feelings are involved, there's always gonna be a little bit of fear. Thoughts like 'am I doing this right' or 'does he/she like this' are a sign of caring. And trust me, this happens even to a sexually active person. Maybe the only difference is snapping out of it sooner and being more able to read the tell tale signs.InnocentlyGreenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12210330555794481746noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8202344894613963804.post-86636177962652084072010-07-30T07:31:09.669-07:002010-07-30T07:31:09.669-07:00Or uncertain about the unknown? If so there is not...Or uncertain about the unknown? If so there is nothing wrong w/that....or maybe apprehensive because once u experience it, u will become obsessed w/that great feeling u get from it?Kalei's Best Friendhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12331539743751163269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8202344894613963804.post-55583486800537682052010-07-29T20:29:30.747-07:002010-07-29T20:29:30.747-07:00I will add this - On rare occasions, I've been...I will add this - On rare occasions, I've been with women who I can't imagine myself sexxing up. However, this is normally regardless of their own experience and physical attractiveness; it normally has more to do with just the general "feel" I get from them. It's tough to explain, and seems to correlate higher with teachers and other people who work with kids, and I think I subconsciously pick up that they still talk as if they're dealing with a kid on dates.Steve G.https://www.blogger.com/profile/12021363760202667755noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8202344894613963804.post-18896722974315377812010-07-29T19:58:36.527-07:002010-07-29T19:58:36.527-07:00Too funny you two. I tell y'all, this is what ...Too funny you two. I tell y'all, this is what I have come across...and I've only just begun. <br /><br />Julianna: Everything you said--thank you. <br /><br />Steve: Thanks for making me laugh! :) You know, I really think what you said is true--maybe they are projecting their own insecurities onto others. That would make total sense, at least with a couple of them.The Frisky Virginhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03782384806427143829noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8202344894613963804.post-82809950369399286692010-07-29T19:19:25.771-07:002010-07-29T19:19:25.771-07:00I agree with Julianna - Between this and your prev...I agree with Julianna - Between this and your previous post about guys not putting the moves on you, what kind of men are you conversing with? Do they play <i>World of Warcraft</i> regularly or wear skinny jeans? <br /><br />The advice seems nebbish and whiny to me. It reeks of projecting their own insecurities on to others - "Oh, of course a virgin doesn't want to have sex to me, <i>they're too scared.</i> It has nothing to do with the fact that I'm a nerdy tool..."Steve G.https://www.blogger.com/profile/12021363760202667755noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8202344894613963804.post-33648140160464775822010-07-29T18:31:16.456-07:002010-07-29T18:31:16.456-07:00Okay, Who are these guys and why are you talking t...Okay, Who are these guys and why are you talking to them? They are obviously (forgive me) idiots. Prehaps, they are in fact virgins, and they are sacred. Here's the thing. There's nothing wrong with waiting for love. Yeah, sex can be good on a primal level, but that's all it is...sex. For me, sex has never been just sex, but more of a way to get connected to each other. Trust me, wild, hot, crazy sex if there's no connection, just leaves you sweaty and forgotten. You're doing the right thing by waiting. For the right guy, "virgin status" will simply be a non-issue. -JJulihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10097214923216967086noreply@blogger.com