Hi! Do you ever get tired of waiting? And what advice would you give to young girls who want to wait for love, like you, but are having a tough time waiting?
Oh, I get tired of waiting all right! Like I’ve said before, this is not an easy choice, much like I’m not an easy lay. But, life isn’t about sitting around, moping about not having anyone in your life (though sometimes you may want to). You have to keep moving. Life will catch up when the time is right. Strength is built from within. Remember, you’re stronger than you realize. The most important thing is to do what’s right for you and never let anyone change that.
As far as coping with the waiting, I think you have to start with your mindset. Stereotypes would have you think virginity is some weird, abnormal thing you should be ashamed of. Personally, I like to turn stereotypes on their head and suggest that virginity is not only pure, but sexy. You don’t have to have sex for someone to find you sexy.
I like to think of myself as undiscovered, uncharted territory. We virgins just have to wait for our Christopher Columbus to uncover us.
You can’t compare where you are now to where you want to be in the future—you’ll go nowhere and likely drive yourself crazy in the process. It’s like treading water in the deep end, waiting for the bottom of the pool to touch your feet. The best and only thing you can do is just go with the flow—ride the waves and see where life takes you. Most of all, trust in yourself and believe in the seemingly unbelievable.